Habit #26: Be the Person You Need

52 Habits To Change My Life

Rebecca Scott
4 min readAug 23, 2023

The person you need will not always be there.

And they are likely not coming.

Your boss isn’t going to give you the support or answers you need. The person you rely on for house-watching when you are away for long periods is away too.

You need a leader who can show you the best way forward. Yet no one is around.

You have two choices:

A. Give up, or

B. Become who you need.

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No One is Coming

You may have seen it or heard it before, here I am reminding you that no one is coming to rescue you.

If you want change in your life you have to do something yourself. They are not coming. No one is.

You have to take the time to break what you want to do down into manageable pieces.

Before you say your problem is too big to do that. Every problem, project, goal, desire, destination is breakable. You can break it down into milestones that will make the destination easier to get to.

Contractors use blueprints of new buildings to figure out how to build them. They build the structure one element at a time. The same is true for whatever you want…



Rebecca Scott

I’m a student of life, Canadian East Coast girl just trying to earn my Crazy Aunt Mug and share my journey to where I am going.